The 9 Essentials Every Thoughtful Estate Plan Should Include
The Unfinished Plan
David and Michelle are in their early 50’s, juggling successful careers, two teenagers, and aging parents who are starting to need more care. Like many, they meant to revisit their estate plan, but life got in the way. Their will is nearly a decade old. Their home is titled only in Michelle’s name. And their IRA beneficiaries haven’t been reviewed since David switched jobs.
They know planning is important. But between work and family, it’s hard to make the time.
Then imagine a sudden accident. Would Michelle be able to access David’s accounts or make medical decisions? Would their kids be placed with the right guardians? Without updated documents, their family could be left in legal limbo during one of the most difficult times.
What Is Estate Planning Really About?
Estate planning isn’t just for the wealthy. It’s for anyone who wants to protect the people they love and leave behind clarity instead of chaos. It involves deciding who will manage your assets, how they’ll be distributed, and who will make decisions if you can’t.
More than anything, it’s an act of care.
Understand Probate and How to Avoid It
Probate is a public, court-supervised process for settling estates. It can be expensive and slow. Tools like revocable trusts, joint account titling, and beneficiary designations can reduce or eliminate the need for probate.
Create or Update Your Will
Your will names guardians for minor children and explains how you want your assets distributed. While it doesn’t avoid probate, it gives clear instructions and can help reduce family conflict.
Check Your Beneficiaries and Account Titles
IRAs, 401(k)s, insurance policies, and even bank accounts can have named beneficiaries or be set up as transfer-on-death (TOD). Review these regularly—especially after marriage, divorce, or the birth of a child.
Gatewood Guidance: These designations often override your will. We help ensure your titling and beneficiaries reflect your current wishes.
Consider a Revocable Living Trust
A living trust can help manage assets during life and transfer them privately after death, avoiding probate. It’s ideal for blended families, out-of-state property, or complex estates.
Establish Powers of Attorney and Healthcare Directives
Appoint someone you trust to make financial and medical decisions if you’re incapacitated. Documents include:
Durable Power of Attorney (for finances)
Healthcare Power of Attorney
Living Will (end-of-life preferences)
Don’t forget your family: If you have aging parents or unmarried adult children, help them get these documents in place. Without them, you may not have legal authority in an emergency.
Have the Conversation
Talking about your estate plan with family can feel awkward. But it’s one of the most valuable things you can do. It sets expectations, reduces conflict, and ensures your intentions are understood.
Tips for a Better Conversation:
Start with your values, not your valuables
Choose a relaxed setting
Be open and invite questions
Gatewood Wisdom: A well-prepared family is the best legacy you can leave.
Be Strategic About Taxes
Smart estate planning can help reduce taxes and preserve wealth:
Step-Up in Basis: Appreciated assets get a new cost basis when inherited, which may reduce capital gains taxes.
Inherited IRAs: Understand the 10-year withdrawal rule under the SECURE Act.
Charitable Giving: QCDs, donor-advised funds, and gifting appreciated assets can all help.
We collaborate with your CPA and estate attorney to build an integrated, tax-efficient strategy.
Keep It Current
Review your plan every three years or when life changes. New job? Move? Grandchild born? These events should prompt an update.
Get Organized
David & Michelle’s Confidence & Relief
Six months later, David and Michelle are finally caught up. Their wills are updated. A trust is in place. Healthcare documents signed. Guardians named. They’ve even had heartfelt conversations with their kids.
They feel confident and relieved. They know their family is protected, their wishes documented, and their legacy secured.
Let’s Start the Conversation
You’ve worked hard, made thoughtful decisions, and provided for the people you love. But when it comes to estate planning, even the most successful families can feel uncertain or overwhelmed.
At Gatewood Wealth Solutions, we believe estate planning isn’t just about documents—it’s about honoring your life, your values, and the people who matter most. Whether you’re starting fresh or updating an old plan, we walk beside you—coordinating with your attorney and tax team to bring everything into alignment.
It’s not just about avoiding problems. It’s about creating clarity, reducing burdens, and knowing your family will be cared for the way you intend.
Let’s build something lasting—together.
Reach out today to schedule your estate planning conversation.
Important Disclosures:
This information is not intended to be a substitute for specific individualized tax or legal advice. We suggest that you discuss your specific situation with a qualified tax or legal advisor
Strategizing for Success: The Parallels Between Estate Planning and a Super Bowl Game Plan
Just as a winning team meticulously plans its Super Bowl plays, individuals and families may benefit from developing a comprehensive plan for their estate. Estate planning isn’t just for the wealthy. Estate planning is a strategic move for everyone to use that helps to see your wishes honored, your assets managed, and your loved ones taken care of. Here are a few benefits of having a well-thought-out game plan for your estate.
Define Your Goals
Just as a football team sets its sights on the Super Bowl trophy, individuals need to define goals for their estates. Whether preserving wealth, providing for family members, or supporting charitable causes, having a clear set of goals helps guide the process and lets you focus on your ultimate goals.
Manage Your Assets
In football, defensive plays try to prevent the opposing team from scoring. An estate plan also acts as a defense, managing your assets to avoid undesirable issues such as excessive taxation, attacks by creditors, and lawsuits. You could safeguard your wealth for future generations through mechanisms like trusts and strategic gifting.
Ensure a Smooth Transition
A well-executed game plan ensures smooth transitions between plays and helps your team adapt to unforeseen challenges. Likewise, an estate plan facilitates a seamless transition of assets to heirs, manages confusion, and lowers the risk of any potential disputes down the line. Having clearly outlined instructions on asset distribution, beneficiaries, and contingency plans could help you and your loved ones navigate any unexpected life events.
Quarterback Your Legacy
In football, the quarterback is the leader on the field, directing plays and making split-second decisions. Likewise, you can act as the quarterback of your estate plan, making critical decisions on important items such as a power of attorney, healthcare directives, and guardianship for minor children. Taking charge now is an opportunity to see your legacy unfold according to your vision.
Use Special Teams
In football, special teams play a targeted role in handling kickoffs, punts, and field goals. In estate planning, specialized tools like life insurance, charitable trusts, and family limited partnerships act as the “special teams,” providing additional avenues to help you work toward your financial goals.
Adapt to Changing Conditions
Just as a football team adjusts its strategy based on the game’s dynamics, an effective estate plan should be adaptable. Regular reviews and updates determine if your plan reflects changes in laws, family circumstances, and financial goals while allowing flexibility.
Avoid the Two-Minute Warning
In football, the two-minute warning signals the game’s imminent end, and teams must act quickly. Similarly, you shouldn’t wait until the last minute to create an estate plan. Procrastination may lead to missed opportunities and added stress for loved ones. Planning ahead can help put you more in control.
From defining goals and managing assets to quarterbacking your legacy, the parallels between a winning game plan and an effective estate plan couldn’t be clearer. By recognizing the importance of early and thoughtful planning, you could work to manage your financial future and your loved ones’ future and leave a lasting legacy that may even rival the triumph of a Super Bowl victory.
Important Disclosures: The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual.
This information is not intended to be a substitute for specific individualized tax or legal advice. We suggest that you discuss your specific situation with a qualified tax or legal advisor.
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